Sitting with Jesus - Prayer for the 1st Week of Christmas

Church –

Below is a prayer for the 1st week of Christmas. As you Sit with Jesus this week, I pray that it will help to remind you of the impact that Jesus, the incarnate Word, can make in our lives.

Prayer for the 1st Sunday after Christmas Day

Almighty God, you have poured upon us the new light of your incarnate Word: Grant that this light, enkindled in our hearts, may shine forth in our lives; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. Amen.

Mary: Casting Call

In all of the Christmas pageants of my youth, I never got to play the part of Mary. It was a significant disappointment, and it has taken me years to accept this oversight. So, you will join in my rejoicing as I share with you the good news of my recent nod from the Director. It seems there is still a chance for us all.

Luke 1 tells of the angel Gabriel approaching Mary with news of her being chosen to give birth to the Son of God. “The angel went to her and said, ‘Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you… Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus.”

When Mary was cast in this role it had something to do with her favor with God. I wonder what that means… favor. Throughout the Old Testament, men and women found favor with God as they listened to Him, trusted Him, obeyed Him and walked with Him. He was in their thoughts, their plans, their hearts. He was ahead of them, behind them, with them. He was I AM to them. For me in 2015, that sounds like belief in its deepest and yet simplest form. Belief that He is all I need. Belief that He is so big, so close, so good, so deliberate in His every awareness of my life that He becomes an extension of me, as I become an extension of Him. Inseparable. Entwined.

John 15:7 “If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask … and it shall be done for you.”

I have thought about Mary and this abiding and this favor a lot this Christmas, because I want all of it. But how? I don’t really know for sure, but I think it has to do with planting His words into my soul’s depths with the belief they will grow and become something bigger than me. Just as we believe a seed properly planted will become something else, His words inside of me - Him in me - will yield something new. Him in me changes me, grows me, stretches me, refines me from the inside out. And something else happens along the way. It’s as if I am being prepared for a place I long for but have never seen.

Here we sit at Christmas. And I hear an offering for each of us to play a most sacred role in THE story of our time… You see, I think He is asking all of us to be Mary. It may sounds something like this:

Daughter, will you take My word, My Self into your heart and become pregnant with all the potential of a new life? I am asking only that you abide in me, as My word abides in you. Like a pregnant woman watches new life grow inside of her – something she can only partially see and feel but not fully understand - will you allow Me to grow inside of you? By saying yes, you will begin to see the splendor of Eternity dripping into your everyday life. I ask only that you love this new Life with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. The life inside of you is called Jesus. He is love itself, and He is your Emmanuel. Follow Him wherever He goes. He will comfort you, heal you, bring you peace and joy as you have never known. Trust Him, because He is good. He will show you the way to Me. And with Me, you will understand; for it is with Me that you have always belonged. I have given all that I loved most to give you this opportunity, this gift. I desire you to say yes, because I love you so. This is My Hand reaching down to you. Will you receive this new Life you were born to love?

And just like that, this story is our story. The part is ours for the taking. So, what if we played the part of Mary this Christmas by saying, “Let it be”?

Ruth: Stepping Stones into the Heart of God

The story of Ruth’s journey from pagan Moab to godly Bethlehem and the life that unfolds for her there paints a picture of what following God looks like. It is very easy to treat God like an invisible, unmoving thing that must be visited and honored with bedtime prayers and weekly church services. What Ruth shows us is that living a life of faith requires physical steps TOWARDS God. And before we all panic and say “What steps? Where are the markers? How do I get to Him?” Know that the way is actually quite clear. The steps to God are simply our doing what HE says, again and again.

In my mind, Moab represents the places in my life where I try to have it both ways. It’s where I want to live a life of faith, but I don’t really want to do what the Bible says. Moab is the place where I want to follow Christ, AND ignore my sisters who are struggling because of the color of their skin. It is the place where I want to feel good about doing my quiet time AND omit the part about living in relationship with people whose bank accounts are not like mine. Moab is the place where we say, Yes, I believe in God, but there is a to-do list or an image-to-maintain that just must be addressed right now; so I simply cannot walk toward Jesus today. And I wonder why my faith life feels stagnant.

Ladies, never has Ruth hit me so hard. I used to focus on the love story part and how she ‘happened’ into the field of the wealthy and godly Boaz. I would daydream about the good life Ruth and Boaz had together as leaders in that town. I would get so excited thinking about how that’s what Jesus wants for me. It is all good stuff; and it is truth on which it is absolutely worth dwelling. But we must look at what got her there.

When Ruth asks Boaz how he has come to notice her and give her this favor, he says this: “All that YOU HAVE DONE for your mother-in-law after the death of your husband has been fully reported to me, and how YOU LEFT your father and mother and the land of your people, and CAME to a people that you did not already know.” Ruth 2:11. This affects you and me, because Boaz is a pre-cursor to Christ. In many ways, this story of how Boaz cares for, provides for and redeems Ruth gives us an understanding of the kind of redemption Christ is offering you and me. So, when Boaz is saying that he notices: 1) what she DID for her mother-in-law; 2) how she left her people; 3) how she came to a new land; I cannot help but think these are the things that Jesus desires of me. These are my stepping stones into the heart of God.

Let me be crystal clear: we cannot have a relationship with Jesus strictly by serving His people. We must spend time with Him in His word, listening to His voice, praying and worshiping Him. To be sure, Ruth learned many a lesson from Naomi as they tended house back in Moab about who God was and what His commands were. She had spent time learning about God; but in this story we see her physically moving TOWARDS God. There comes a time for all of us to move, to take steps away from Moab and towards our Redeemer. He awaits us in foreign fields and amongst people we have not always known but who are to be OUR people.

Before leaving Moab, Ruth profoundly vowed that Naomi’s God would be her God, and His people would be her people. I have read that verse so many times, but I never saw how I have not DONE this verse. I can see clearly how I have accepted God to be my God but fallen gravely short of seeing His people as my people. Sisters, there is a time for movement towards Him in our hearts, but there is also a time for moving closer to Him with our lives and often that requires a displacement from what feels normal, comfortable, and safe.

Displacement is scary. Leaving what you know and venturing to a neighborhood, a person, a daily routine totally different from your own - it feels weird. But it will be worth it. Boaz was waiting in Ruth’s field of displacement. Jesus is waiting in yours, with arms outstretched. Your love story… waiting to unfold.

Remembering Led Joshua to Faith and Obedience. God gave him Victory.

Four centuries of Egyptian bondage, followed by forty years of wilderness wandering, then the Glory days. God spoke, Joshua listened, and the Glory Days began. The Jordan River opened up. The Jericho walls fell down. The sun stood still. Evil was booted. Homeless wanderers became hope-filled homesteaders. The Lord gave the land. The Lord gave rest.

How could this movement from Egypt to the Promised Land apply to us?

Egypt: Hebrews enslaved to Pharoah. Represents our days before salvation, enslaved to sin.

Wilderness: The defeated Christian life. Characterized by grumbling, anxiety and desire to be slaves again. Didn’t believe the Lord could give them what He promised. Out of Egypt (slavery), but Egypt wasn’t out of them.

Promised Land: The victorious Christian life. By Jesus’ grace and power, we were freed from our old life. “We are more than conquerors.” Romans 8:37. Canaan is a life defined by grace, refined by challenge, and aligned with a heavenly call. We serve out of our giftedness and delight in the Lord.

There were 2 key characteristics that allowed Joshua to lead God's people into the Promised Land.

1. REMEMBERING led Joshua to faith and obedience

  • From the first mention of Joshua in the Bible, it was very important to God that Joshua REMEMBERED. Joshua was the lead soldier in the wilderness battle with the Amalekites. When Moses' hands were raised they were winning, but when they dropped the Amalekites would be winning. After the victory, the Lord asked Moses to write the story on the scroll as something to be remembered and make sure Joshua hears it.
  • When God called Joshua to lead His people into the Promised Land (Joshua 1), Joshua could have responded with “I can’t”. Moses was dead, 2 million people inexperienced in battle, and the Canaanites eat people like them for breakfast. But, Joshua Remembered that God could do the miraculous. He trusted God's Word, and believed that God had already blessed them and chose to live into that blessing.
  • Joshua had faith because God declared He was giving them the land, not might give, you must conquer, must prove yourself worthy, must earn or purchase! Transaction had already happened. When we give our life to Christ, He “has blessed (us) with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ.” (Eph. 1:3) Not will bless, might bless, or someday could possibly bless. 2 Cor 5:17, God will “equip you with all you need for doing his will” (Heb 13:21), “God has given us everything we need for living a godly life” (2 Peter 1:3). These Promises are for us!
  • God offered the inheritance to the people of Moses’ day, but they didn’t take it. They chose the wilderness- self-preservation and grumbling. We don’t want to make the same mistake. Joshua took God at his word and set about the task.
  •  What are our Jerichos that keep us from Promised Land living? Does a stronghold (a false premise that denies God’s promise) have a strong hold on you? Ask God to reveal it.
    • I could never forgive that person (stronghold of resentment)
    • I could never recover or change (stronghold of defeat)

    • Bad things always happen to me (stronghold of self-pity)

    • I have to be in charge for things to go right (stronghold of pride)

    • I don’t deserve to be love (stronghold of rejection)

    • I must be good or God will reject me (stronghold of performance)

    • I’m only as good as I look (stronghold of appearance)

    • My value is based on my possessions (stronghold of materialism)

  • “The enemy does not have to kill you to destroy your witness… all he has to do is disorient, distract, disengage, distance you, disable you, deactivate you…. From your calling." Gary Barkalow, It’s Your Call: What Are You Doing Here?

2. STEEPED IN GOD’S WORD

  • God was equipping Joshua for the mission of a lifetime. Command given? Read the Word of God. (Joshua 1:8) He gives us the same word. Open our Bibles, most important tool for spiritual growth.
  • Desire to leave the wilderness for the Promised Land? Trust in God, engage the Bible, meditate on it day and night, think and rethink about it, let it be your guide and go-to book for questions, the ultimate authority in your life. “You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free” John 8:32. Truth saves us from guilt, fear, anger, and reconfigures our heart.
  • Do we have Scripture on the walls of our heart? On the walls of our home? By our kitchen sink?

Like a mom sending her child off to school, bending down low, looking them in the eye, “Remember what God has done. Remember who you are. Remember whose you are.”

Content from Max Lucado’s book, “Glory Days: Living Your Promised Land Life Now.”

The GOOD Life

Joseph is one of my favorite Bible characters. In a life that included a fair amount of darkness, Joseph stands in the end a man who loved his people well. Despite tough circumstances, I see a man who trusted God enough to get out of bed each day believing there was good in it simply because his GOOD God was present. Joseph seemed to live very much in the presence of a very real God. I would love to live my life like Joseph lived his.

In this part of the story, Joseph is 17. He is Jacob’s favorite son. This family is wealthy, prominent and well-known in Canaan. So, I am going to jump into this little moment in history and say that if I had been Joseph at 17, I would have been pretty pleased with myself and my circumstances. I mean, who wouldn’t be? Known by the village, part of God’s First Family, handsome, rich, all set up to live a GOOD life. I would certainly have had a bounce in my step. And I would have wanted everything to stay just like that. GOOD.

An interesting thing happens in this story. It turns out that Joseph, the handsome, favorite son with big dreams, is despised by his brothers. (I am guessing envy was at the root.) One day Jacob sends Joseph out to check on his brothers in the fields. They see him coming and decide that they have had enough of “that dreamer” and throw him in an empty well until traders come along and they sell their brother into slavery. And just like that, the GOOD life was no more. Wealthy, prominent, adored Joseph becomes a slave – unknown, alone, powerless. No family, no money, nothing.

This is where each one of us is able to step into this story. Not because we are literal slaves, but life happens to all of us. Fancy wedding days can end in divorce. Fawned over children can lose their way. Wealth can be lost. Families betray. Friends move on. Sickness comes. Life happens and it can feel like a dark, lonely pit. And even if we are not currently experiencing this kind of suffering, chances are (and I can speak for myself here) I am working pretty darn hard to prevent it. In fact, I can work so hard to keep the GOOD life GOOD - or at least so that it looks GOOD to you - that it can feel like dark, lonely pit of its own. So, you see, on either side of this GOOD life, we can be captives.

BACK TO OUR STORY, role model Joseph is a now slave in the house of Potipher, the chief bodyguard. Having made this giant freefall from the GOOD life, Genesis 39 says, “And the Lord was with Joseph so that he prospered… the Lord was with him … the Lord gave him success in everything he did... the Lord blessed ... The blessing of the Lord was on everything…"

In Joseph’s life pits, do you know what I see? I see the Lord. My favorite character is now totally upstaged by God. The LORD is so present in those dark pit places. I know that God is everywhere all the time. But this is what I wonder: maybe Joseph saw Him more clearly, felt Him more fully when all the fluff of the GOOD life was temporarily moved aside. Even though God was always with Joseph, I wonder if Joseph was with the Lord in a totally new and radical way.

So, here is our MANNA. It is so easy to get enamored with the GOOD life. We can work for it, strive for it, suffer for it, pray for it, decorate it; we can love it so much that we even grieve the loss of it, or become a vigilante trying to save it. Be careful. This quest for the GOOD life can blind you to the God who is GOOD. My friend Joseph (I call him that even though we have not formally met, though I do so look forward to coffee with him in Heaven) ends his days as Prime Minister of Egypt. He is the ultimate success story. Because he woke up each day – both in the pit and in the palace – and chose to draw closer to the God who was GOOD, his life was filled with the blessing of a GOOD God’s presence. Oh, if that could be said of us!

God Builds a Nation

Whether it is the ‘bachelor’, the ‘apprentice’, the ‘chef’, the ‘dancer’, or the next ‘american idol’ – our reality TV shows present ample evidence that we think we know a thing or two about what makes a person worthy to be “chosen”. Even my adolescent sons are engrossed with Fantasy football, where they ‘choose’ players for every game to insure virtual domination each week.

Rewind a couple thousand years. Time has passed since Adam and Eve, and the earth is now populated. Some people seek God, others have become fully consumed with everything else, and then, there is the gray in between. At this place in time, God begins the work of building His nation, assembling His chosen people. I find this fascinating because we get to see the kind of people God chooses to be on His A-Team. We, a people so sure we know who should be chosen for what, get to see whom God chooses to be a part of the plan to save the human race.

He starts with Abraham, who was obedient in leaving his family and his country to follow God. Abraham loved God. He was also a man who sometimes wasn’t so sure of how God would protect and provide, so he told half-truths. He would take matters into his own hands, just to speed up God’s plans. I lost count of the times that God had to remind Abraham, ‘I will build a nation through you. Your descendants will be as numerous as the stars, as the sand.’ Abraham was a good man, but he was not perfect. God chose Abraham anyway. Abraham was not always faithful to God, but God was always faithful to Abraham.

Sarah was Abraham’s wife and the mother of God’s team. Sarah laughed at the promises of God as being impossible, ridiculous. Sarah believed in God, Sarah loved God, but Sarah didn’t always believe in His promises. Sarah thought she knew better ways to get God’s work done. She was jealous of her servant, possessive of her son. God chose Sarah anyway. Sarah was not always faithful to God, but God was always faithful to Sarah.

Isaac, the promised son and heir of Abraham and Sarah, married Rebekah. Rebekah and her younger son, Jacob tricked Isaac into blessing Jacob instead of his older son, and the rightful heir, Esau. The favoritism in this family led to deceit, hatred, and broken relationships. Jacob ultimately flees for his life for fear his brother would kill him. This family knew God and believed in God, but they did not always seek God. They took matters into their own hands and wandered from His presence. God chose this family anyway. Isaac, Jacob and Rebekah were not always faithful to God, but God was always faithful to them.

It is really easy to get the wrong idea of God -- to think we have to act a certain way all the time, say the right thing every time, be perfect Christian robots in order to do this faith thing right. But that is just not true. God does not ask for perfect players, because He doesn’t need them. HE IS THE PERFECT ONE. This faith thing is not about what we bring to the table; it is what He brings to the table. So, when He calls out, ‘where are you?’ as we hide within our busy little lives for fear that we don’t have what it takes “to be a good Christian”, it is evidence not that we have underestimated ourselves, but instead, that we have underestimated our God.

I used the think that I had to get bigger faith to be on God’s team, to be one of His people. But when I look at His story and see whom He chose, I see that I only need teeny, tiny, mustard seed-sized faith. I need only enough faith to say, ‘here I am, Lord’. For as the old hymn sings, ‘Great is His faithfulness’.

Monday Manna: "Where Are You?"

Genesis 3:8-9 We have all heard in some form the story of creation. The six God-sized days in which we went from nothing to everything. Galaxies, billions of stars, the moon, the seas, tadpoles, butterflies, giraffes, inchworms, colors, fragrances, cool breezes, sunsets and you and me. Six God-sized days. Creation. There it was. And He said, it was good.

The Bible tells us that God knows everything, that He even transcends time. So, when God saw the splendor of the cheetah’s spots, the glorious sunrise over the sea, man and woman in beautiful relationship, He also knew what would follow: pollution, disease, war, violence, injustice ... And still, He pronounced it Good.

But how can that be? There is sorrow and suffering everywhere. Marriages crushed. Infertility breaking hearts with every female cycle. Youth (and their moms) struggling for identity in a world that glorifies staged snapshots that only mask the true cravings of a heart . Poverty suffocates. Race divides. It goes on and on. So, in all that, where is this GOOD, God proclaimed?

I love my God, because He can take my hard questions. After the creation part of the story, in chapter 3, Eve takes the forbidden fruit that is “pleasing to the eye and promises to make her wise” (Pinterest anyone?). And just like that, paradise is lost. They went from living in Eden *with God*, working alongside Him, hearing His voice (with real words), peace, harmony, relationship – to hiding from God, ashamed.

I don’t think we can grasp what they felt like. Imagine those moments when you are with family or friends and there is just this connection. You feel loved, you love in return. There is joy and an easy presence in the space. Laughter, connection, mutual respect, deep love and affection. I think that feeling times a gazillion would take us close to what Adam, Eve and God had. You see, Adam and Eve had NEVER DONE ANYTHING WRONG, so they had nothing to hide. Their relationship was complete in a way that we cannot fathom. Even with our spouses, our mothers, our besties, we hide little things. But to ol’ sister Eve, this was brand new. Total connection, total love, total intimacy was abruptly interrupted.

And do you know what our God did? In their shame, in their guilt, *when they had run away from what was GOOD, *He called out to them. He said, “*where are you?”* Remember, our God knows all things so He knew exactly where they were. He knew exactly what they had done. He did not call out to them because He needed information. *He called out to them so they would know He was right there*. They may have run away from Him, but He was right there within their reach.

Not much has changed. We, like Eve, can make a real mess of things. We will run and hide, in shame and guilt, but God who is GOOD is right there, within reach, calling out to all of us, ‘where are you?’ His call is like a rescue rope for us to reach out and grab hold of. He is calling all of us. Where are you?

What if we simply said, “Here I am?”

Sitting with Jesus - Weekly Prayer for September 14th

Redeemer –

Last night was a wonderful Vision Sunday celebration as we looked back on all that the Lord has done in our presence over these past 6 months. We have needed the Lord to lead us and guide us to this point. We will also need him to lead us and guide us going forward. Which makes this week’s prayer particularly applicable to our lives together.

Below is a prayer for this week that acknowledges our need for the Lord to direct our lives in all things. As you Sit With Jesus this week, meditate on this prayer and invite the Spirit of God to lead you in every area of your life.

Prayer for the Sunday closest to September 14

O God, because without you we are not able to please you, mercifully grant that your Holy Spirit may in all things direct and rule our hearts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

It has been a joy and a privilege to be a part of this new work with each of you.

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Ordinary Stories for Ordinary Time - Teresa Kincaid

Church -

Below is a link to another 'Ordinary story' of Redeemer from Teresa Kincaid. These simple acts of hospitality are making a profound impact in their new neighborhood. Just another example of how in our everyday, ordinary lives we can Participate with Christ in the Redemption of All Things!

Enjoy!

*If you are enjoying these stories, please consider contributing to them for the benefit of the rest of the church. Contact me (ford@redeemerrraleigh.org) and I can give you some very simple instructions on how to share your story. It just takes a couple of minutes but will encourage many

Sitting with Jesus - Weekly Prayer for September 7th

Redeemer -

Yesterday was another great joint service. Thanks to everyone who participated and served in order to make it happen. Who knew Teresa, Glenn and Andy had such pipes and amazing dance moves! That joint choir may have to make another appearance in the future.

As we begin a new week, I want to pass along a prayer that may help you as you Sit with Jesus this week. It is a prayer which asks the Lord guard and keep those who trust not in their own strength, but in the mercy of the Lord. We are always tempted to trust in the things we can see and touch, but the scriptures always call us back to the only one who can truly keep us safe. I hope that this prayer is helpful for you this week.

Prayer for the Sunday closest to September 7

Grant us, O Lord, to trust in you with all our hearts; for, as you always resist the proud who confide in their own strength, so you never forsake those who make their boast of your mercy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.